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Discover the Power of Going Alcohol-Free for 40 Days
What are you waiting for?

High Friends,
Life has a way of throwing curveballs when you least expect it. Just after getting married, I was hit with some life-altering news: after fertility testing, I was told that I would never have children on my own. The only options, they said, were egg donation or adoption. And to be completely honest, that was devastating.
But here's the thing—becoming a mom was never really part of my "end goal" plan. I was happy in my life, enjoying the journey, and thinking, "If it happens, cool." So, when I was faced with the stark reality of infertility, it was like the ground beneath me was suddenly pulled away. Control was something I no longer had.
Now, what most people don’t know is that around this time, I had switched jobs, and my new employer offered unbelievable benefits. So, I went from hearing that I’d never have children to receiving a "blank check" to try. The universe, right?
But what came next was hard: four rounds of fertility treatments. Thousands of shots, bloodwork, scans... and losses. All while navigating an overwhelming emotional rollercoaster. And yes, my coping mechanism at the time was alcohol, which, as you can imagine, didn’t help one bit.
Fast forward to early 2020, when my husband and I reached our breaking point. We had made it through Christmas, an ER visit on New Year's and emergency surgery to have my appendix removed, birthdays, and Mardi Gras (all while designing, building and furnishing our forever home), and decided to give it one last shot with fertility treatments. But this time, I made a commitment: I was going alcohol-free for this final round, knowing deep down it would be crucial to my body and mind.
That’s when I discovered Alcohol Free for Forty.

Give up alcohol between Mardi Gras and Easter
I didn’t know it at the time, but this challenge was exactly what I needed. It was my “excuse” to go alcohol-free for the first time in years, without having to dive into all the details of my fertility journey. I started the program just before my procedure in February 2020, and by March 13, 2020—the world was shut down. But guess what? My miracle baby arrived, and I’ll forever believe fate brought Alcohol Free for Forty into my life at the perfect time.
Now, I want to bring this same life-changing experience to you. Whether you’re Sober Curious, Cali Sober Curious, or simply looking to take control of your health for 40 days, Alcohol Free for Forty is the program to help you do just that. They’ve got a free program to guide you with resources and support, and a full program offering pre-and post-metrics to track the impact of cutting out alcohol on your body and mind.
And here’s the best part—I’ve got a discount code for you! Use CALISOBER to get $10 off the registration fee. For just $39, you’ll get a $450 value of health metrics including bloodwork, weight and body composition analysis, and more to see the physical, mental, and emotional changes from 40 days alcohol-free.
This is your chance to reset and focus on your health—whether it’s for a challenge or a life change. Ready to join? Register here.
Cheers (but not with alcohol, of course!) and if you need to find good alcohol free options to cheers with, we are days away from opening Cali Sober Market to provide those delicious alternatives for you!
Stay Higher and Drier My Friends ✌️
Monica
P.S. If you’ve ever struggled with something similar to my fertility journey or just need a little nudge to take that first step toward a healthier you, this program might be exactly what you’ve been looking for. Let me know if you have questions or need support. I’m here for it!